In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's all too easy to lose sight of the humanity in those around us. We get caught up in our own frustrations and disappointments, often reacting harshly when things don't go as planned. But what if we took a step back and considered the unseen battles others might be fighting? Extending grace, even in the smallest of interactions, can make a profound difference in someone's life—and ours as well.
The Hidden Struggles Behind the Smiles
Imagine this scenario: you're at a restaurant, eagerly anticipating a delicious meal after a long day. The waitress seems distracted and, despite your clear instructions, gets your order wrong. Frustrated, you decide not to leave a tip, feeling justified in your decision. Later, you overhear that she recently lost a child. Your frustration melts into regret as you realize the depth of her pain and the strength it took for her to even show up to work.
This story is not an isolated incident. Every day, people around us grapple with personal tragedies, mental health challenges, and invisible burdens. That cashier who seemed indifferent might be worried about a sick parent. The driver who cut you off might be rushing to the hospital. The colleague who snapped at you could be dealing with overwhelming stress at home. When we extend grace, we acknowledge the possibility that there's more to someone's behavior than meets the eye.
Approaching Others as Jesus Did
As Christians, we are called to embody the love and compassion of Jesus. Throughout His ministry, Jesus consistently extended grace to those who needed it most. He dined with tax collectors and sinners, healed the sick, and forgave those who wronged Him. His approach was not contingent on others' behavior towards Him, but rooted in unconditional love and understanding.
In John 8:1-11, we see the story of Jesus' profound grace towards the woman caught in adultery. Instead of condemning her as others did, in verse 7, He said, "Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her." He chose to offer compassion and a chance for redemption. This story reminds us that we too should look beyond people's actions and offer grace and kindness, even when it's not
reciprocated.
Hurt People, Hurt People
It's often said that "hurt people, hurt people." Those who lash out or act unkindly are frequently those who are themselves hurting deeply. As Christians, our response to such behavior should be one of love and compassion, recognizing that our kindness might be the only glimpse of Jesus they encounter that day. It’s not always easy because our human reaction wants to snap back at them. That’s why we have to continually pray in those very moments. It doesn’t have to be a “bow your head” prayer, more like talking to Jesus in your head.
Think of a time when someone was unexpectedly kind to you during a difficult moment. Perhaps a stranger's smile lifted your spirits, or a friend's understanding words eased your burden. These moments, however small, can be transformative. By choosing to respond with grace, we become instruments of God's love in a world that desperately needs it.
Practical Steps to Extend Grace
- Pause and Reflect: Before reacting, take a moment to consider what unseen struggles the other person might be facing. This shift in perspective can soften your heart and change your response.
- Offer a Kind Word: Simple acts of kindness, like a genuine compliment or a word of encouragement, can have a significant impact on someone’s day.
- Practice Patience: In moments of frustration, remind yourself that patience is a virtue. Give others the benefit of the doubt and choose to respond calmly.
- Pray for Others: When you encounter someone who is difficult or unkind, pray for them. Ask God to bring healing and peace into their lives and to give you the strength to show His love.
- Lead by Example: Be the change you wish to see. When you extend grace, others may be inspired to do the same, creating a ripple effect of kindness.
Conclusion
In a world filled with hidden pain and unspoken struggles, extending grace can be a powerful testament to our faith.
In Ephesians 4:29 it says; “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” By approaching others with the compassion and love that Jesus exemplified, we not only make a difference in their lives but also reflect the heart of God. Our kindness might be the beacon of hope someone needs, the only glimpse of Jesus they see that day. And in doing so, we fulfill our calling to love others as He has loved us. 🫶🏼
XOXO,
Sheree Moore
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***All my blogs are written by me usually during my Bible study time when the Lord is teaching me things. When I get the nudge from him to share, I do. Therefore the things written about do not come from me but from the Lord. I take zero credit for it, it’s all Him. 🙏🏻🙌🏻
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